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31 octobre

What A Girl Wants?

just do not know why.
suddenly I thought of this.. "What a Girl Wants?"

Maybe some of you will tell me "a man"..
Ya indeed, a girl need a man..
But, what kind of man?

I don't know what the girls want out there..
For me, I want a man who loves me more than I love him..
Can this give you a clearer picture?

For my opinion, I do think girls need a family..
Maybe I come from a family which consider as "loving & caring"..
So, I do long for a family like the one I had now..
That's why, "family" is very very important for me in my future..

And this is why I want a man who loves me more than I do..
and of course this man must long for a family and has the love and responsibility in his family..

Girls out there, if a man never hope for a family.
just leave him!!!
a man who never think of his future "family" can be said as.. not a family man!
he wont give you happiness.
UNLESS! you are also a girl who do not long for a family..
but I think most of the girls in the world want a fairy tale.. don't you?

haha..
all the above are just my opinion!
you can have your point of view!
May everyone finds your beloved one asap!
For those who already found one, grab it tightly!
Fate don't come all the time~

Love is in the air~!

Adeline
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26 octobre

Focus On The Family

I attended Rev James Wong's 2 weeks continuous sermon which was last week and this morning.
Rev James shared with us about "Marriage".
You may feel quite surprise that he shared such topic with us.
But I do think that it is very helpful for people who are now in a marriage or ppl who are yet to come..
Anyway..I wish to share with you some of the things which inspired me..

The sermon goes into 2 parts:

Part 1: The Six Characteristics of A Satisfying Marriage

There are 6 C
1. Communication
~ communication plays an important role in any relationship. Conflict occurs  because of communication. Do learn how to communicate with others and especially the one who will be with you for the rest of your life..


2. Consideration
~ In marriage, how can we miss this "consideration"? think about it.. We do need to give your spouse respect all the time, understand that he/she is the gift from God..


3. Compromise
~ Do tolerate with each other. Love or marriage does not demand its own way.. Love is about 2 persons but marriage is about 2 families..


4. Courtship
~ I think it is important to keep  "courtship" in a marriage like what the couple use to do before they get married. Keep the relationship "fresh" all the time..


5. Companion
~ Your spouse is the one who will accompany you for the rest of your life as we human will have to leave the parents and join in marriage with another woman/man to form one body. This is from the Word of God.. Appreciate his/ her presence always.


6. Christ
~ and of course, for Christian, Home is where Christ is there! So, without Christ, a family is no longer a complete one..

Part 2: How To Pull Together When We Are Pull Apart

Surely, "conflicts" are the factors that lead to the pulling apart of married couples.
"If a house divided against itself, that house cannot stand" Mark 3:25

I. So, what causes "conflicts"?

1. Money
2. Sex
3. In-Laws
4. Children
5. Communication problems
6. Domestic Violence

II. Steps towards Reconciliation

1. Call On God for Help
~ Look for God whenever problems occur. Seek God before you seek the people who has the conflict with you.

2. Confess My Part of the Conflict
~ Conflict involves 2 parties especially in marriage. So, do confess your wrongdoings before you confront with your spouse.. A quote I learnt today -- "Angry" is a choice. You can choose to angry or not to in all situation.. That's all depends on you!

3. Convene a Peace Conference
~ Learn to ask things from spouse in a polite manner where he/she feels being respected all the time. I'm so surprise when Rev James said :"Never waste another day. Solve your problems with other people before you come to Sunday Worship service"."
"In your anger do not sin"Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold"~Ph 4: 26-27.
I think I should do this.

4. Consider My Spouse's Perspective
~ "Each of you should look not only to your own interest, but also to the interests of others." Phil 2:4
Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry..
Try to listen to your spouse. Man, you are not right always. Woman, you are not the queen always too!

5. Concentrate On Reconciliation Not Resolution

That's all..

Now..
I would like to have this little corner for Khen..

Khen, I think you will read this one day. but do not know when..
After this 2 weeks, I think God works through these 2 sermons especially today.
After all, I mean going through happiness, sadness, conflicts, misunderstanding.. you name it..
I know, both of us are really tired.
One thing which I wish to say, since this morning when im sited in the church..
I wanted to say.. "THANK YOU"!
Thank you because you're brave. You took up the courage to make such decision which I thought that hurts me a lot but actually not. However, I would want to say thank you because I think your decision is correct.
All the while, you're the hero, and im the coward.
Thank you because you make me a better person and of course I hope you did make me a better companion for other people.
I do not know what I should say other than Thank You.
Let everything stops where it should be.
Misunderstanding.. Let time do its part..
I am helpless with that..
Lastly,
Khen! THANK YOU SO MUCH!

23 octobre

23.10.2008

Today!!
I DID NOT GO TO SCHOOL AGAIN!!
haha.. this is the 2nd time for this week..
and im planning to skip tmr lessons too..
because it is really wasting time in sch..
when i see frens.. i talk non stop..
will never do revision..
if not, i'll sleep in class..
so i think stay at home better..
 
and now!!
im struggling with maths!
everyone! is MATHEMATICS T!!
though some ppl said that isn't hard at all..
but it kills me..
hate u mathematics T!
but i'll try to pass it..
do not want any regret in the future..
 
today is 23.11!
means my ji muiz wil be back in a month!!
hooray!!
JI MUIZ!! WELCOME BACK..
WAITING FOR YOU GALS DY!!
muacks!
 
okay le..
back to my maths after this short advertisement..
ahahaha..
good luck..
since everyone is rushing for assignments and busy for exam..
jia you ba!!
 
Adeline
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22 octobre

is okay

knowing that you feel disappointed with your result..
yet i cant do anything..
but i think it is okay..
just turn ur frown, upside down!
 
i hope my smiles do chase your blues away!
smile!
 
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20 octobre

failed

Unfortunately, tonight was not the last time..
anyway, by now i think you feel better than before..
as you have more support from your mum..
hope everything goes well for you..
i can't help out anything..
what i can do for you is only pray for you..
will not forget you in my prayer..
 
Adeline
2214

another moment of waiting..

Once again, Im waiting for your sms and call..
I hope everything can be settled tonight..
And as what your mum said "tonight will be the last time"..
I hope you're doing well now..
And i prayed that you have a smooth one now..
 
Pls do promise that,
after tonight,
do not look back..
you dont have to bother anything happen at the other side..
because it is not ur duty or responsibility ANYMORE..
 
Take up the courage..
You will be able to see brighter days ahead..
I hope what i talked to you today did help you out..
If you still need to share it out..
I will always be your listener (if u wish to..)
 
All the best..
Jia you ba..
**Hoping all the best for you now..
 
Adeline
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lazy..

Hello!
today 20th October 2008..
is also Monday..
it's 12.40pm..
and im at home blogging..
hahaha..
 
Yes!!
i did not go to school today..
with no reason.. ahahahaha..
i have a disease.. uncurable disease..
the disease called "Lazy"!! ahahahaha..
 
stay at home..
no read also oh..
watch tv only..
 
hey ji muiz out there..
tonight will go out with Mdm Hiew again oh!!
ahahahaha..
 
faster come back la..
miss you all a lot wor me..
muacks!
 
 
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18 octobre

after a hour

after an hour..
finally i got your sms..
i felt relief..
but at the same time tears which i had hold for quite sometimes,
they all fallen down..
anyway, glad that u have a friend to be with now..
jia you
 
Adeline
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miserable

tonight..
i experienced the feeling of "miserable"..
stand also not right, sit also cant..
so i decided to sit in front of the com..
hoping that,
i can express my feeling with words..
 
im sure u know what happen..
and hope that u're fine.
knowing that you're in hard situation..
yet u think of the future..
so that there wont be any obstacles..
for this, u did not come..
 
thanks for still considering for all this
even u're in such bad situation..
can be said "worst"..
 
all i can do now is pray for you..
Hope that God opens a way for you..
 
Dunno when u will be seeing this..
But what i can do is only
accompany you, listen to you..
i cant even comfort you..
kind of loser..
 
jia you..
i hope im still a good listener..
 
may u have a good night sleep tonight..
 
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17 octobre

my stupidity

Hooray!!
My trial is over!!
What a good news for me..
 
Anyway, Im more happy because You gave me a ride home..
And yet, You make me showed my stupidity..
 
No one knows..
but we know..
ah!! Im just stupid..
And you too!
 
All the best..
Know that you're working now..
 
Adeline
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16 octobre

the morning oil..

Im here to burn "morning oil" now..
for my biology which will start at 7.25am later..
wow.. it's bio..
most of us work for this paper more than the rest..
what should i say?
we aim higher on this paper..
 
Too bad..
i stay up late continuously for few nights,
and last night i cant stand anymore and i go to bed at 12am
without putting anything into my peanut brain..
 
And now,
this will be my last chance..
i hope i can get what i want into my brain..
just for today..
 
Wish me luck..
Pray for me..
 
*today is not as fun,or maybe as happy as the day before..
im alone.. without your companion.. :(
14 octobre

trial, trial, TRIAL!!

The trial here is not the trial in my life okay..
It's my trial exam!!
hahaha..
tmr i will have chemistry!
hooray!!
be optimistic! ^^
though im not good at it!
wuahahaaha..
 
revise halfway..
feel like wanna bla bla bla something here..
so im here!
 
drank a cup of coffee!
surprisingly, coffee works for me tonight!
thanks, coffee!
Who invented coffee?
ahahaha.. God?
He is the creator of all things right?
Then i should ask..
Who found coffee?
Then, i think i want to thank that kind human!
 
Till here..
time to go back to my CHEMISTRY!!
 
Chemistry oh Chemistry..
 
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sweet..

Having my Dark Choc from You..
Though it is a Dark Choc..
But it is so sweet..
I love it so much!!
 
Thanks!
Eat till sick also worth it!
 
 
Adeline
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morning

It's 3.20am now..
And I woke up to continue with my math..
Hope that I can!
 
12 octobre

Nothing Ever Changes

A song sang by SHE
A song which did not get people's attention..
However, the lyrics of the song carries great meaning..

Hope you enjoy this..

嘿不要不开心
(Hey,do not feel sad)
我不是要离去
(I am not leaving you)
只是那来自远方呼唤的声音
(I simply heard a summon sound from afar)
要我去探头看看生命窗外的风景
(Wanted me to probe my head out of the window to have a look at the life's scenery out there)
我去去就来
(I will be going for just a while)
你别红眼睛
(Do not cry)


my love 原谅我太好奇
(My Love, forgive me for being curious)
但世界太绮丽
(But the world is too beautiful)
我怎么能不一一去经历
(How can I miss the chance to experience each of them)
否则我一定会恨死我自己
(Otherwise, I will hate myself very much)

Nothing Ever Changes
(Nothing Ever Changes)
请快乐等待
(Please do wait joyfully)
等我绕一圈回来
(Wait until I return again)
还会是那个爱你的女孩
(I am still the girl you love)
一样很容易感动感谢感慨
(I am still the same old me) 
你给我的爱
(The love you gave to me)
我永远爱
(I will love it forever)


my love 要不是你给我那巨大的勇气
(My Love, if you did not happen to give me the great courage)
怎么会这样相信我可以
(I wouldn't believe that I Can!)
随着梦想留下美丽的足迹
(
Leaves behind the beautiful trail along with the dreams)
串成了故事
(I'll string them up into a story)
带回来送你
(Bring it back and give it to You)


我答应你
(I promise You)
等我看够美景就回来
(I will return after I have enough of the beautiful sceneries out there)
交给你一颗更丰富的心
(With a richer heart Just For You)

Just for you..
11 octobre

anti-food

nowadays..

I eat less..

I am supposed a girl who eats a lot..(if u know me well)

but dunno why..

i dont like to eat..

i anti-food..

i feel hungry..

extreme hungry..

but i dont feel like eating..

breakfast, biscuits..

lunch, if no food then dont eat..

if mummy prepared dy, then i eat a little bit..

every night my dinner also like the "miao zai fan"(cat food)

im always the first one to leave the dining table..

i just do not know why..

now, i use to drink milk, coffee, milo, oat to fill my stomach..

what happen?

jie jie said im too pressure and stress on study..

but i dont think so..

i dont feel stress at all wor..

i just hope that i wont have the 厌食症"yim sik jing"..

pray for me frens..

Adeline
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9 octobre

tonight..

tonight..
it is just as usual as every other nights do..
what make this night different?
that's you!
 
thanks for the comfort and your encouragement..
thanks for being with me..
thanks for the warranty u gave to me just 2 hrs ago..
(i hope u still rmb)
thanks for reminding me that i'm unique..
thanks for telling me that i'm important..
thanks for everthing you've done no matter it's in the past, present or in the future..
i would like to say million Thanks to you..
for you are a great man!
 
what will happen in the future?
no one can gives me the answer..
somehow, you illustrated it to me already..
no matter it will happen or not..
i appreciated the warranty you gave to me tonight..
 
i love Tonight very much..
night..
 
Adeline
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7 octobre

Credits..

Firstly, a big big thanks to Mdm Hiew..
She taught me a lot today by consulting me..
She told me how to find a goof boy friend.
She told me how actually marriage looks like..
All this things are far from me now..
So, I'm waiting to see all this to happen one day..
I'm 20 already..
Another 5,6,7,8,9 yrs or maybe 10 yrs,
I might become Mrs...what what what already..
but somehow, fate does not come..
So let's wait..
You might think that,
it is too early for me to think about marriage..
but that's just maybe 6 or 7 years later..
not short.. but not long too!!
anyway, i will get my Mr Right a.s.a.p..
 
Im here to say THANK YOU to everyone who did comfort me through phone, sms, messages,etc..
I appreciate that lots..
Especially the "Xiao Qi Gui"..
wuahahaha..
 
6 octobre

Random Pics..

Vivian Kuit's 19th birthday 29.09.2008
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Tuition

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Hari Raya Aidilfitri

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Outing with Friends!

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Being locked outside the house..

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imagine how wu liao i am that time to wait my mummy come back..

Studying for STPM

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That's all for this time..

3 octobre

when u appeared again..

when u appeared again..
it is all different this time..
just do not wan to rely on you too much..
because i know how far i can go..
so better stop now..
take care my fren..
because i know u have a good one already..
4 words for you..
THANK YOU VERY MUCH..
this means a lot to me..
time flies, people change, but memories remain unchange..
 
Adeline
03.10.2008
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