So let time tells me and mummy lo..
See mummy knows me better or I know myself better..

If I win.. I will always keep this as secret..
If my mummy win, I will tell everyone..
神秘。。

**recently, I met up with lots of old frens..
which I've lost contact with them for few years..
all of them suddenly pop up during this hard time to give me comfort..
Thanks friends!
I also want to thank all friends who did send me msg, sms, or call to send me regards..
love you all.. and thank you so much..

Adeline's life is quite happening also..
Though no more special event like wedding..
but she has BBQ!!

BBQ
16.09.2008
-it's Malaysia day!
- The Dorcas Kindergarten's teachers are celebrating it!

Here the night goes!
can you recognise him? My biu jie fu.. (the newly-wed)

all the teachers 老师.. some of them are not here yet..

Before that let me introduce to you all the teachers..

Upper row(left to right): Teacher Vun, Teacher Lo, Teacher Elaine, Teacher Lee
Lower row(left to right): T.Evelyn(my sister), T.Pang(the bride!), T. Noime, T.Lily, T. Wong, T.Liew
*Overall, the upper row teachers are younger.. while the lower row teachers..erm.. understand it yourself!

BBQ starts!! I want chic wing! hot dog!!

this little boy? is Teacher Lily's son called "yang yi"..

We also have electronic grill that night! that's mummy!

Hing! Jaye! Joanne! Siah!Tzun! can recognise what's that?
Yeah!! it's the lamb and the fishball!
you try on grill fishball before? not bad eh.. You can try..

The grill-master of the night!

The 3 men.. from left to right.. T.Lily's husband, goh goh and biu jie fu..

I still young.. so I join the younger teachers group.. hehe..

Yang Yi entertained all the people that night..

See.. He is cute right? Want to be engineer? architect? AIM HIGH!

Yang Yi even helped to clean up the plates.. good boy..

Hey frens.. rmb "green tea"? the one we wanted to drink so much during steamboat at Jaye's house.. mana tau Jaye's aunt want cola.. while all the youngsters want green tea and teh kundur.. wuahahahaha..

Lami-ing!
20.09.2008
I thought I would be very sad this day but thanks God.. I have lots to do that day and forget about the sadness!

Why we suddenly have "Lami" ?
Because ah Fong goh goh is back!!!

erm.. did not change much..

See the mahjong mat my sis bought? it does not feet the table! funny! some more, can play chess on it leh..so high tech..

miss Lami?

Night time..
Youth Fellowship..

Ah Fong goh goh is not cooperating like Siah..

The night ends here..
** thanks to all people who had been with me throughout that day..
without you I would not be able to go through the day happily without thinking of the saddest thing..

Last night (21.09.2008)
Moonlight resonance 家好月圆大结局。。
Ah.. so nice..
see.. bad people will not have good ending..

This photos.. my sis primary school friends came to play Lami again!!

They are all funny goh goh and jie jie lo..
Im holding my chemistry notes sitting around the table and laughing all the way with them..
*oops.. I forget about the chemistry notes! luckily is not too bad for my test today.. ahahaha..

Update Complete!

on the 07.09.08 (sunday)
is also known as "hoi mun chu" in hakka..
As my biu jie's home is not in sdk..
So, she will be going out from Taman Tyng Hotel!

Let the pictures talk ya?

room no: 218

things used to "siong tao" 上头。。

As it is also the birthday of the bride's mother 08.09.08 so we celebrated it in one go!

the birthday cake..

the bride (left), the birthday lady (my kiu nyiong), bong (biu goh) and Maggie (biu goh's gf)

Time to eat cake!

Time for sparkling juice too!

After all this.. We wait patiently for the "Hair combing ceremony"..

Ready!!!!!!!!

一梳，梳到尾。。
二梳，白发齐眉。。
三梳，儿孙满堂。。

DONE!!

NEXT!! eat tong yun..
EVERYONE eat 9 tongyun which indicate the newly-wed "chiong chiong 9 9"..

HERE ENDS THE "HOI MUN CHU" NIGHT!
P/S..we were asked to arrive at hotel at 6.30pm the next morning!! WHAT?? SO EARLY..

08.09.08 - WEDDING DAY!

early morning 6.15am

the make up artist just started with the bride's make up..

what is inside? the beautiful wedding gown!

So.. lets's guess.. who is the little flower girl??

JIANG JIANG!!
can you recognise the little girl?

ya! she's Hwey Sin! She just cant wait for her turn to make up!!

Na!! Now she is sitting on the chair!!

Bong and Yan Cheng.. still rmb this little boy which i met in Lahad Datu?

He also wants to be handsome ma!!

See nice decoration..

Bride's mother..

While we were taking pictures.. Hwey Sin 's hair-do is done!!

She looks good right?? little flower girl of the day!

Not long later..

Here's the Groom!! with the little flower boy.. Howard Zai..

Have you ever see a flower boy with a shooter on?? Little Howard did that!

Making vows.. The vows sound like this.. "in the future, what belongs to ah fung belongs to pui yee too! but what belongs to pui yee isfor herself only!!" wuahahahaha..
You want bride right? Nah.. give you the Little Bride..Hwey Sin!! ahaha..

Next station: First Studio..

traffic jam.. on the way down to studio.. sdk frens.. can u recognise where i took this?? let's guess!

The bride.. pretty?

The bride with the 2 little flower boy and flower girl.. They are so adorable!!

Teacher Pang with her students..

This 2 flower boy and girl hold hands all the while! lovely!!

Bride and her brother..

Happy Family!

The bride always said that she wants her baby to be as cute as hwey sin in the future!!

The Bridal Car.. Toyota Cute..

next Station: The Groom's House..

can see me??

nah.. can see clearly now.. In Ninja King.. my 2nd time i think..

Arrive at Fung's House.. Howard zai trying so hard to open the door.. Yeah.. indeed he needs to use some energy to open it.. Lovely little boy..

Fan Uk Kei la!

Chinese tradition..

Going into their lovely room!!

Chinese tradition again.. JUMP!!

Groom have to 揭头纱。。

Huh?? Kill ur bride on the wedding day?

Sweet..

狠！

This is what happen at the end.. see the little cream there!

Serving Tea ceremony.. Bride serve tea to her father-in-law..

They change into a casual wear..

After that, everyone go home rest..

Then the night comes..

Next Station: Kenalanmu Restaurant..

**Never go there for wedding dinner.. if 100% is full marks.. i'll give 10%.. pls imagine..

The backdrop which was wrongly make.. first mistake.. second mistake is the bride's name.. more mistakes to go..

Arrival of guests..

The environment there that night..
3rd mistake.. The table number was a mess.. (some ppl really muka tembok one.. invite only husband wife but turn out bring along 3 or 4 children.. that caused so much problems in seating..)

Yum Sing time!

You can never miss this moment..

Little Yan Cheng..

My table with the newly-wed.. where am i? taking this pic..

I did not take much photos.. just all this..

the mistakes continues here..
4th mistake: due to there's another wedding dinner at the same place.. Problem sharing LCD projector..
5th mistake: Even the wedding song also change due to the other side got to use that song.. what??
6th mistake: when the main table is eating the 5th dish.. some of the tables only eating the 2nd dish.. efficient right?
7th mistake: everyone eat duck(not nice) ..but some of them eat only "yok choi chic"..

it's really not worth to have a wedding dinner.. the boss is too greedy..
why he still want to take the next door job since my cousin's there dy 57 tables and they are not manage to serve well at all!!
What a cheap Restaurant..

The day ends here.. Wish both my biu jie and biu jie fu.. live happily ever after and fast fast come out with ur little baby!! jia you!!
 

As I had promised Hing to post today's outing for her to see see look look..
So, here it goes!

After church this morning.. We decided to go for a try at the newly opened cafe called "Vedablu"..
From the advertisement, I understand that the main product they sell is ITALIAN ICECREAM..

I do not want to comment too much on the ice cream..
For me, I'll give 65%..
It is not the best ice-cream I ever eat..
so.. only 65%..

Before show you what we ordered.. Let me show you some view there..

So, can you roughly guess where it situated?

I love White Myvi.. Love!!

And the view there will just bring people to a condition where their expression will become like the following 2 boys..

Lim (left) & LJ (right).. So emo..

This is what on the table..

Chit-chatting..

Can you notice that there are some familiar faces??
Yes!! Joanne and Esther were back from Singapore for holiday! Welcome back!!

They are listening to a song that I introduced to them.. "You will never walk alone - Point of Grace".. This song encourages me a lot..

Fongli's Mango Yoghurt Smoothies.. 65%..

Joanne's Green Tea Ice cream.. 80%.

My Coke Float with Choc Ice Cream.. 85%..

The girls had group photo before leaving..

And I notice that.. Sdk people are rich!!

See! There are so many cars outside Giant! Giant no need money ah??

As most of us still want to eat something "salty"..
So, khen came out with a brilliant idea to go Mile 4 Pasar!~
And so we go!

Hing.. Siah is not co-operating again.. 4 of us in khen's car..

Another 4 of them in Ah Lim's car..

OFF TO MILE 4 PASAR!

If mentioned about mile 4 pasar.. what else?

Of course, wo tie la!! but not chic wing this time..hehe..

Hing! Jaye! Here you are, the Wo Tie!

The "Oil Fried Ghost" with kaya.. Yummy.. hey you.. faster wipe your saliva..Come out dy..

Sophia eat dou hou ji mei(好滋味）..

That's the end of the eating trip..
Hing and Jaye.. faster come back lo!
Want to eat with you gals!!

Today when I'm in sch..
When the lesson was extreme boring..
I looked at my hands..
My hands remain the same..
No added scars..
One thing that change is my hands are cold..

When I looked at both my hands..
They were once very warm and full with love..
But they are not really lucky..
As they are now feeling cold again..

Understand that everything would not go back..
Understand that he has change..
Understand that the world did not change for my sadness..
I understand all of them..
But I just cant leave all this into my memory box..

Still remember he said everything that a bf should told his gf just before he leave me..
Still remember that when I crashed the car he told me "Im here with you"..
But today when Im sad.. Where are you?

Love is blind..
I experienced this thoroughly..
Photos are still in my wallet..
People still thought that we are together..
He sounds really great without me...
But he never know how suffer am I when Im without him..

I know Im so useless to say all this..
Because Im not as strong and tough as he thinks, you think and everyone thinks..

I do not know when I'll stop posting all this "moody post"..
But surely not in the near future..
But far far future..
Time is not flying at all now..
It seems  like creeping very slowly..
Keep reminding me of my sadness..

Yeah.. just went back today from Lahad Datu..
My purpose?
Attend the wedding dinner of the bride's family..
nah.. my biu jie and biujie fu.. After 8 years of paktohlogy course.. finally they got the PHD!! the marriage certificate!

My family and i went there on 30.08.3008 (Saturday).
After 2 1/2 hrs of journey, finally around 5.30pm we arrive there!

Of course, once you mentioned about "Lahad Datu"..
First thing comes to my mind will be the mouth-watering food!

Jiang jiang~!!!

The Tong Yam Seafood..
Hot and Spicy..

The Mango Fish.. So far cant's find this in sdk..

 The Deep Fried "Ung Choi".. Crispy.. Perfect with the sauce..

During the wedding dinner at home..

As usual, we have buffet at home..

Can you see they serve the dishes in a big bowl instead of a small plate? which is different from sdk..

 The Roasted Pork.. Yummy..

 The Roasted Lamb.. Delicious.. Especially with the mint sauce!

The colourful and sweet jelly..

However, too much of nice food until cannot finish..

See! These are the left-over food..

This morning (01.09.2008).. we went for breakfast then have a light snack at lahad datu's southern bakery.. wasai.. lahad datu also have southern.. what about sdk??

The chocolate chip bun..lovely!!

See my brother.. very "ji mei".. the one with sunglasses on is my the groom..is also my "biu jie fu"..

Random pic..

This is  Yan Cheng.. little cute boy 3 years old..

The Identical Twin! on the left is jie jie and the right is mui mui.. they are Yan Cheng's little sis..

This little boy.. i called him Baby.. one year old ++

Cute boy.. totally dunno his name.. ahahaha..

  Half drunk groom..

First time saw airplane at lahad datu leh.. MASWing..

Till here..
Their wedding in sdk will be held on 08.09.2008 (monday)..

I dont need to go to sch! yeah!! cuti cuti!!